They hadn't talked about money properly in years.


Hey Reader,

I still remember the day I found out.

We were in debt and my husband bought a PlayStation. I was furious, not really about the PlayStation, but because we weren't on the same team with money.

Maybe you've had a moment like that. Or maybe things are fine, but money conversations in your house are just... tense. A little awkward, something you both avoid.

Either way, I get it.

After years of working this out in my own marriage, and helping other couples do the same, I know one thing for certain: when you have a plan you've both agreed on, everything shifts. You stop talking at each other about money and start talking with each other.

That's exactly what I help couples do in my 30-Day Money Plan: one hour together, a simple plan you both own, and 30 days of support while you use it.

But before any of that, I'd love to know where you're starting from.

What does money conversation look like in your house right now? Hit reply and tell me. I read every single one.

Love,

Money and Marriage

Hi, I'm Karen and I'm a Finance Coach for Christian couples. If you're ready to get on the same financial page and build wealth together, my weekly newsletter is for you. Get practical tips for having positive money conversations, stretching your budget and creating financial unity in your marriage.

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