Steps you can take today


Hi Reader ,

I believe true financial wealth is built in the quiet moments—the ones where we choose to do what’s important, even when it’s not urgent.

Things like reviewing your finances, tracking your spending patterns, setting up sinking funds, or finally starting that emergency fund—none of it screams for your attention. But those quiet tasks? They’re the ones that make the biggest difference over time.

That’s why I’m such a fan of “money dates”—just 20 minutes a month to take intentional action with your money.

It could be:

  • Looking over your credit card or bank statements
  • Cancelling a subscription you no longer use
  • Opening a savings account for Christmas
  • Setting up an emergency fund

In my experience, people don’t struggle financially because they’re careless—they struggle because they don’t make time for the non-urgent but high-impact money tasks.

So here’s your nudge: look at your diary this week and carve out 20 minutes. Sit down—ideally with your partner if you have one—and tackle something that’s been on your financial to-do list for far too long.

Ask yourself:

  • How can I be more intentional with my time and money this week?
  • What could I complete now that will save me stress later?

Remember, financial success often looks like doing the small things now, so you’re not paying for Christmas well into March.

Top tip: Treat this time like picking the kids up from school—non-negotiable.

And if it helps, mark it in your calendar as: "Creating financial freedom". That small mindset shift can help you show up with more energy and purpose.

Lastly, ask yourself: What will this allow me to experience? How will my life be different once this is done?
Because research shows we’re driven more by purpose than by numbers on a spreadsheet.

So go ahead—block off that time. Take action. And if you do, hit reply and let me know how it went. I’d love to cheer you on!

With love,

P.S. Even if it feels small or insignificant, every step you take builds momentum. You don’t have to do everything at once—just start with one thing.

Money and Marriage

Hi, my name is Karen and I am a Finance Coach and blogger. I specialise in helping couples talk about money - without arguing. Subscribe to my weekly newsletter for practical tips on how you can make your money go further so that you can live your best life!

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