Hi, I'm Karen and I'm a Finance Coach for Christian couples. If you're ready to get on the same financial page and build wealth together, my weekly newsletter is for you. Get practical tips for having positive money conversations, stretching your budget and creating financial unity in your marriage.
One Question That Brings Couples Closer
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Hi Reader , One of the most common things I hear from couples is: "We just can't get on the same page about money." One person wants to save. The other wants to enjoy life now. One sees a budget as freedom. The other sees it as restriction. Sound familiar? Here's the truth: getting on the same financial page doesn't mean you have to think exactly alike. It means you understand each other and work together toward a shared vision. This week, try this: Sit down with your spouse and ask them: "If we had an extra $5,000 right now, what would be the most fun way we could use it together?" I know from experience, if you're not already talking about money regularly, jumping straight into goals or budgets can lead to an argument. Start with something fun and low-pressure instead. Just listen to their answer without judgment. This isn't about making a plan yet. It's about understanding what lights them up. That conversation is the first step toward actually being on the same page. Ready to move from financial stress to clarity and unity? I help Christian couples create financial systems that honor both partners' values, without the tension and arguments that usually come with money talks. Schedule your free call here and we'll chat about where you are, where you want to be, and the specific steps to get there together. Love, P.S. The couples who get the best results are the ones who stop trying to figure it all out alone. If you've been spinning your wheels, let's talk. |
Money and Marriage
Hi, I'm Karen and I'm a Finance Coach for Christian couples. If you're ready to get on the same financial page and build wealth together, my weekly newsletter is for you. Get practical tips for having positive money conversations, stretching your budget and creating financial unity in your marriage.
Hello Reader , As a finance coach for couples, I get asked all the time: "What's the ONE book we should read together?" Without hesitation, I recommend "The Psychology of Money" by Morgan Housel. Here's why this book is a game-changer: It taught my husband and I (and now the couples I work with) that personal finance is more personal than it is finance. Our money decisions are driven by emotions, experiences and psychology rather than pure logic. Understanding why we make certain money...
Hi there Reader , I'm Karen, and I wanted to properly introduce myself—or reintroduce myself if we've crossed paths before. I'm a finance coach for Christian couples, and I live in Kenya with my husband (who pastors at a large Christian school here) and our daughter. We're originally from the UK, but we've made this beautiful country our home for a few years. Here's the thing: I didn't become a finance coach because I had it all figured out. I became one because it took my husband and me 18...
Hello Reader , We used to think we were hopeless with money. Every January, we'd set ourselves some new money goals. Set strict spending limits. Promise ourselves this time would be different. By March? We'd be ordering takeout, feeling guilty and convinced we lacked willpower. Sound familiar? Here's what we discovered: We weren't the problem. The approach was. Most budgets start with the wrong question. They ask: "How little can you spend?" But the right question is: "What do you want your...